Update: Stepping on a Land Mine

The first update of 2021 is from the last letter writer of 2020! I’ve requested updates from previous letter writers and will be publishing as many as I receive over the next month or two. If you are a previous letter writer with an update to share, please reach out.

New questions are also welcome. Questions from those who’ve never submitted before have priority, but previous letter writers are welcome to submit new questions if it’s been at least a year since their previous one and they’ve provided an update.


Thank you Megan... this is great. It does give me some hope and an understanding that by taking some firm decisions, I will be able to take charge of my life. I want to now prioritise myself, live for myself, travel, and not live with regrets. It is fine with me if I don't have much money, but at least I will be rich with experiences. 

I want to liberate myself from the thoughts of "what will others say" or what other people will think. I don't care, because they are not here with me when I cry day and night, wondering how I landed myself in such a position. Fingers crossed, and with lots of hope in my heart, I will go take charge of my life.

Thank you very much again for doing this.